What should I do?

[Luv2Skydive]

Watch the freaking out trick backfire when he mumbles "stop being such a woman".

Since I never freak out, it would work for me. If I freak out....it must be serious.

If he did tell me to stop being a woman I'd just freak out about him being "gay" by wishing I was a man and accuse him of being on the "down low".

[AutoPilate]

I'd have told him "Well, you were freaking out about it, doesn't that make you a woman too?"

[Luv2Skydive]

OMG! That is so me! Well, I'm the one who get's in a funk and then I just come out of it. Hubby is super sweet and usually just steers clear, which works for me but not sure it's healthy. I'm not into talking about my feelings. Ick.

Hee, we're the opposite then. I always wanna share my feelings. Not necessarily to get into a huge 4 hour discussion about them, just put 'em out there so he knows where I'm coming from.

Then again, me and him have a good schedule, where we'll be fine for a month or 2, fight for a couple of days straight, and then be fine again. It works well.

Mine rarely EVER gets mad. It's just not him. He just goes with the flow....sometimes too much, but 9 years and we still like eachother must be a good sign! I think it's the similar interests and opposite personalities that keeps us together. I couldn't STAND to be with someone like me!

[Luv2Skydive]

I'd have told him "Well, you were freaking out about it, doesn't that make you a woman too?"

Then start calling him girly man.

[Mirage]

Yeah that's how it is with us. I couldn't stand a male version of me.

He's got a horrrrrrrrrible temper though. And sometimes it's about the stupidest things. One of these days I'm gonna see him stamp his foot like a 4 year old having a temper tantrum. And I wont be surprised in the least.

[Luv2Skydive]

Give him a time out.

[Mirage]

Give him a time out.

"No juice or cookies for you until you turn that attitude RIGHT AROUND, mister!"

[Luv2Skydive]

Hmm...I've never heard "it" referred to as juice and cookies. It does makes sense if you think about it.

[Mirage]

Hmm...I've never heard "it" referred to as juice and cookies. It does makes sense if you think about it.

Chocolate chip cookies are just like....*ahem*, because you can never have too many?

[LesterG]

hmm BA,

so what would you usually do to a 2yr old that pouts and stomps and rolls on the floor kicking and screaming cause he can't get a hot wheelz toy car?

SSO's ftl


edit: added SSO

[nobackspacebutton]

You know what pissed me off last night..

he was talking about how he missed his car

and he said

"You won't understand because your a woman."

I was like "WELL! Since I'm a woman and can't understand anything YOU must not be able to understand me because you are A MAN! Maybe I don't understand because I'VE never had a car as a girlfriend before."


But then we got over it and he apologised but OMDUDE..WTF?

People CAN understand each other...it doesn't matter if they are black/white/man/woman...i mean GEEZ.

[Kasdeja]

sounds like he put a little too much emotional attachment into a car...

[LesterG]

sounds like he put a little too much emotional attachment into a car...

yea for real...

S.S.O.

[djmadscribbler]

It's a car....I mean, come on! Does he have some other form of transportation to use to get to work, etc?

[nobackspacebutton]

sounds like he put a little too much emotional attachment into a car...

yeah, he did.

it was his baby.





it barely worked, but yeah.

we had to sell it last year to PAY OFF 2 of HIS bills that creditors were going to place judgements against him for if not paid.