Clumsy attempts

[New voice of reason]

Dear Sarah,

your sister didn`t have the courage to tell you, and Jonas is too hurt to tell you:

But your way of trying to tell Jonas to take it like a man that he has been used and just to keep in mind the fun they had by kissing each other (I don`t know about more) and to ignore his feelings was extremely clumsy.

You only made things worse because Jonas didn`t see the good purpose that you had but felt humiliated.

About feelings and love, you still have to learn a lot.

And about your home situation: I know it is hard for you to see your parents split up. It always is for the children, and even "though you are a teenager, when it comes to love, despite your probably existing sexual experience, you are still a child. A child that wants comfort and a stable basis at home - which she cannot have at the moment.

So, somehow, Sarah, for you, it is time to grow up. And really to grow up, not just by a lose attitude when it comes to sex (which is not very grown-up at all).

That is also the case when it comes to Daniel.

Think about whether you really want HIM or whether you just act so flirtagous because your parents are seperated and you feel lonely and misunderstood. If that is the case, you don`t deserve Daniel, sorry to say so. Daniel has deserved better.

Yours
New Voice of Reason