Lay off Jonas, Sarah.

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Avoiding getting into an off-topic discussion with Sonia about expressing your opinions in an appropriate manner...

Sarah, I felt really offended by your latest video, and I wouldn't be surprised if Jonas is giving you the silent treatment. If you're not into relationships, then that's up to you. It's a decision you've made, not a necessary result of having divorced parents. If sex, for you, is meaningless fun, then carry on as you please.

But you have no right to use your own behaviour as a benchmark for others. You have no right to tell Jonas that having an emotional response to sex is wrong or a sign of weakness. It's perfectly normal to be in love. In fact, the hormones released during sex engender deeper feelings of love. Yes, it's fun, but it's healthy to see sex as more than that. Just because your attitude towards sex is more trendy doesn't mean everyone has to conform to it.

I don't buy this whole, 'divorced parents, she's hurting, give her sympathy,' stuff that Taylor is spewing. You haven't asked for sympathy. You've merely thrown your weight around and acted like you know it all. I have divorced parents, and so do lots and lots of other people, and most of us don't claim that as a result, we know it all about sex, love and marriage.