Lonelygirl15

Kas maybe I can call my friend the minister to cheer u up?

not just one...mymother in law, my sister in law and I swear...every woman Iknow who has kids. I even got asked why I keep trying. I was like, well...I'm just not preventing but it's not really any of your business. It's ridiculous.

LOL I don't think I should post this pic but I just laughed so hard!!!! Sorry for those who are offended! Just don t go see it!!!!

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My wife constantly gets asked why we *don't* have kids and don't want them. Maybe we can trade the people in our life who think we should still be trying for the ones in your life who think you shouldn't be... Not that you wouldn't want to strangle my in-laws within five minutes...

'mute

wintermute wrote: My wife constantly gets asked why we *don't* have kids and don't want them. Maybe we can trade the people in our life who think we should still be trying for the ones in your life who think you shouldn't be... Not that you wouldn't want to strangle my in-laws within five minutes...

'mute

my husband and I get that all the time too. We are only 23! far too young for children yet people just wont leave it alone.

Start telling them that, actually, you'd just done the deed right before arriving. People do shut up, mostly.

agent_fondue wrote:my husband and I get that all the time too. We are only 23! far too young for children yet people just wont leave it alone.

We've come to accept that we're not gonna have kids. We're sort of enjoying the freedom of it It's the other people who piss us off... And we've been through exactly what Kas is dealing with from the weekend too, especially when we were still trying... It makes you want to punch someone in the face

'mute

Kasdeja wrote:Start telling them that, actually, you'd just done the deed right before arriving. People do shut up, mostly.

Maybe next time we should offer to do it in front of them, so they can tell us why it's not working...

'mute

Funny, I was thinking more of throat punching. Shuts them up longer.

wintermute wrote:

Kasdeja wrote:Start telling them that, actually, you'd just done the deed right before arriving. People do shut up, mostly.

Maybe next time we should offer to do it in front of them, so they can tell us why it's not working...

'mute

I'm actually at the place where, though I desperately wnat to be a mom, I'm sort of "o.k." with where I'm at. I'm not stressing on if I'm fertile, if I'm pregnant, none of that. I just figure if it happens, it happens.

Kasdeja wrote:I'm actually at the place where, though I desperately wnat to be a mom, I'm sort of "o.k." with where I'm at. I'm not stressing on if I'm fertile, if I'm pregnant, none of that. I just figure if it happens, it happens.

That's where my wife and I were at not too long ago... Now we're considering getting snipped just to be sure it doesn't happen. I'm not sure I want to be retired before I can enjoy the freedom of not having 'em again

'mute

My husband and I decided we'd look into fostering children if I turn 35 and still no luck. That's over 5 years away.

Well, I'm off. Thanks for letting me vent.

Np Kas!!!

See you soon!!!

wintermute wrote:

agent_fondue wrote:my husband and I get that all the time too. We are only 23! far too young for children yet people just wont leave it alone.

We've come to accept that we're not gonna have kids. We're sort of enjoying the freedom of it It's the other people who piss us off... And we've been through exactly what Kas is dealing with from the weekend too, especially when we were still trying... It makes you want to punch someone in the face

'mute

We have made the decision right now not to, I often think I really dont want any ever, but sometimes I get this really terrifying feeling that even if I wanted to have kids I wouldnt be able to... I think it stems from the fact that my sister have so many kids, none of which were planned (between my two sisters they have 7) and I have never even had a scare (I really really dont want one either) I just get that really scary feeling every once in a while... its stupid really, because I there is nothing that should make me believe that.