Lonelygirl15

Jo_16_2 wrote:yeah, of course i wouldnt do it because i'm forced to it well, except if i hooked up with the daughter of a mob king that would slith my throat if i didnt marry her

thats when you get your own buddys together and have a shoot out with the mob.......

Jo_16_2 wrote:hmmm i'm not a big believer in marriage myself, but i respect the ones that are!
it's just that...i've watched many cases of friends of mine that had a relation for years, and decided to get married because of their families...2 months later they were divorced...

Marriage mistake number 4: Getting married/choosing a marriage partner to please others.

xeniph, i wouldnt get married to someone just to please others, but if it was really important to her, and i was sure that it was with her that i wanted to share my life, i wouldnt see why not

I wouldn't date a man who wouldn't marry me. To me, it's a sign of respect. Otherwise, it's sort of like, "Yeah, I love you now, but I'm not willing to commit to you in any material form. I want to have an out, just in case."

Quite honestly, I believe the decision of marriage is one of the most important decisions in life.

But your viewpoint, Jo, is quite characteristic of many of the opinions nowadays.

Xeniph wrote:

Jo_16_2 wrote:hmmm i'm not a big believer in marriage myself, but i respect the ones that are!
it's just that...i've watched many cases of friends of mine that had a relation for years, and decided to get married because of their families...2 months later they were divorced...

Marriage mistake number 4: Getting married/choosing a marriage partner to please others.

Marriage mistake number 4? what are the others..... and how many are there???????

Jo_16_2 wrote:xeniph, i wouldnt get married to someone just to please others, but if it was really important to her, and i was sure that it was with her that i wanted to share my life, i wouldnt see why not

Oh, I was just saying that I could identify the mistake that your friends made. NEVER get married just to please others. To please your partner, I suppose, but if it is not ultimately YOUR decision there is a high probability that you will come to resent her for "forcing" you to get married.

Anyway, let's not get into all that now. Back to rocks...*sigh*

Xeniph wrote:Quite honestly, I believe the decision of marriage is one of the most important decisions in life.

as do i.

Cloud_ax wrote:

Xeniph wrote:

Jo_16_2 wrote:hmmm i'm not a big believer in marriage myself, but i respect the ones that are!
it's just that...i've watched many cases of friends of mine that had a relation for years, and decided to get married because of their families...2 months later they were divorced...

Marriage mistake number 4: Getting married/choosing a marriage partner to please others.

Marriage mistake number 4? what are the others..... and how many are there???????

Lol. Well, the actual "name" for this particular set is the "Seven Major Mistakes made when Deciding about Marriage." There are, as the name suggests, seven.

Xeniph wrote:Lol. Well, the actual "name" for this particular set is the "Seven Major Mistakes made when Deciding about Marriage." There are, as the name suggests, seven.

wow seven......

jo and Xeniph, do either of you have a significant other in your life??

Argh! What the heck is dolomite?! Thank goodness for wikipedia...

Cloud_ax wrote:

Xeniph wrote:Lol. Well, the actual "name" for this particular set is the "Seven Major Mistakes made when Deciding about Marriage." There are, as the name suggests, seven.

wow seven......

jo and Xeniph, do either of you have a significant other in your life??

Not yet, but I'm looking. ;D

Xeniph wrote:Argh! What the heck is dolomite?! Thank goodness for wikipedia...

WOW! my friend just told me about dolomite today!

they are just rocks......

Yeah, but I'm being TESTED on those "just rocks!"

i have a lot of significant others...my friends

Xeniph wrote:Yeah, but I'm being TESTED on those "just rocks!"

lol! yeah i guess it would be bad if you answered "they are just rocks"