Please Remember

nobackspacebutton · Post by **nobackspacebutton** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 11:31 am

Bree,

Hey Bree. In advance, thanks for reading this.

I know your tired of hearing about your dad and your tired of hearing the 'are you ok?'s but please remember that even though your 'dad' isn't your biological dad...he was still a father to you. He loved you can cared for you, the best he could. I know these times are tough but these are the times that will mold you into who you are going to be. Don't let them tear you down. Don't speak until you are ready. It'll all be okay.

-BA

lonelygirl15 · Post by **lonelygirl15** » Tue Jan 09, 2007 10:57 pm

Well said nobackspacebutton (geesh long name lol). He is my dad and no matter what, that's the way I'll always think of him. In the end, he was trying to protect me. That's the memory I'll hold onto.

nobackspacebutton · Post by **nobackspacebutton** » Wed Jan 10, 2007 7:58 am

Thanks for replying Bree. And my nickname is much shorter than my username...BA. ^_^

lonelygirl15 · Post by **lonelygirl15** » Wed Jan 10, 2007 12:48 pm

nobackspacebutton wrote:Thanks for replying Bree. And my nickname is much shorter than my username...BA. ^_^

Ok BA

... I'll get to your other questions in a bit. I really like how interested you are in what's going on in my life and that you're looking to help me. You don't feel sorry for me or yell at me like others have. So yeah I appreciate your productive questions...even though I can't answer them half the time lol. Oh and the "mental exercises" ... we did try that whole falling down thing, but Owen doesn't have long arms and can't catch anyone...ouch. So it didn't really work as a group trust exercise.

Post by **Broken Kid** » Wed Jan 10, 2007 1:31 pm

lonelygirl15 wrote:Oh and the "mental exercises" ... we did try that whole falling down thing, but Owen doesn't have long arms and can't catch anyone...ouch. So it didn't really work as a group trust exercise.

Aw, poor Owen! I bet he's really soft to land on, though!

nobackspacebutton · Post by **nobackspacebutton** » Wed Jan 10, 2007 2:22 pm

lonelygirl15 wrote:Ok BA ... I'll get to your other questions in a bit. I really like how interested you are in what's going on in my life and that you're looking to help me. You don't feel sorry for me or yell at me like others have. So yeah I appreciate your productive questions...even though I can't answer them half the time lol. Oh and the "mental exercises" ... we did try that whole falling down thing, but Owen doesn't have long arms and can't catch anyone...ouch. So it didn't really work as a group trust exercise..

Oh no! lol yeah, you really need a bunch of people to do that at once...like maybe, 6 or 7? Also, I don't see how that relates to your situation. I know Jonas might have some troubles with trusting people, but that was strange. At least you can laugh it off.

And I do want to help Bree. Its a rough situation to be in, but as long as you know you have all of us here on the forums, I think we can all figure this out. The internet is a great thing and we all can research pretty well...so I'm sure with you helping us, and us helping you---we can figure everything out. ^_^

Killthesmiley · Post by **Killthesmiley** » Wed Jan 10, 2007 3:42 pm

Hey Bree!
Hope you watched my video hun! I shared with you a story about my mother and my little interesting little life drama.
Its hard being from a home like that. I still to this day have a hard time coming to terms with my Grandparents and and my real parents. I have jsut recently found my biological mom and its a constant mental conflict between how I'm supposed to feel about this and whether this is hurting my grandparent, who I've grown to call mom and dad.
I don't know what your going through. I've never had a death in the family that is close. I've had my best friend died, that was a very rough situation. I locked myself in my room for weeks and didn't talk to anyone.

Anyways. Thank you so muchfor reply to BA's post. I'm happy to see that you've gotten up and around and on the forums. We're all here for you Bree. And if you ever want to talk about your Dad and your questions about who you really are, don't be afraid to give me a shout. I'll be happy to be a shoulder for your support. Sometimes...strangers are better to talk to.

Love,
Killthesmiley
(Kelly)

Pmonkeysbanana · Post by **Pmonkeysbanana** » Mon Jan 15, 2007 7:36 pm

lonelygirl15 wrote:Well said nobackspacebutton (geesh long name lol). He is my dad and no matter what, that's the way I'll always think of him. In the end, he was trying to protect me. That's the memory I'll hold onto.

Don't forget Bree, your mum is your mum no matter what as well. I don't think she'd have acted the way she did if she didn't care about you, and so far, she's been a real trooper. Higher up in the order or not, I think she really does care.

cup o' noodles · Post by **cup o' noodles** » Fri Jan 26, 2007 3:21 pm

Broken Kid wrote:
lonelygirl15 wrote:Oh and the "mental exercises" ... we did try that whole falling down thing, but Owen doesn't have long arms and can't catch anyone...ouch. So it didn't really work as a group trust exercise.
Aw, poor Owen! I bet he's really soft to land on, though!

Well, Owen's the shizz, so he doesn't have to be good at trust exercises. He's great at everything else, so ya.