About the guys...

[Kasdeja]

I'm not saying you should talk when you aren't ready, no, no...not at all. You need time. But...go easy on 'em. They are worried and trying to help. They don't understand...I mean, they are GUYS, lol. Kinda like puppy dogs, loving but not always the brightest. They just want to look out for you. I know it's annoying when they don't leave you alone. I'd try to stay calm, though, and explain to them that you just need some time before you'll be ready to talk, Don't push them away, rudely, they deserve better than that. Just try to explain it so that they will let you breathe a bit.